That Thursday afternoon in November I was face to face with 16 excited but shy Cambodian girls and boys between the ages of 6 and 15. I was there to photograph them so that they might receive sponsorship for English lessons and keep them in public school . The photographs I took of them could make the difference between the continuation of a life of poverty or the hope of becoming empowered and a chance at a brighter future.
We were just outside of Siem Reap, Cambodia, the gateway to famed Angkor Wat that attracts millions of visitors every year. We had arrived in Sopheap’s tuk-tuk and were on a country road, lined with one or two room huts on stilts with bamboo stick floors and dried rice grass roofs. In the distance the land was flat. The green of the rice fields was occasionally broken by the pink dots of lotus flowers growing wild in water ponds from recent monsoon floods. The ground beneath the houses was partially muddy still and littered with plastic bags and garbage. A dug trench along the edge of the rice field caught the overflow of rain water and was also the source for washing, cooking and drinking water.
So how do you photograph and share the stories of children who live in dire poverty? Children who do not go to school because there is sometimes not enough food, whose parents earn less than one dollar a day? Children who live without running water, without toilets and without most of the things we do not think about because we cannot even conceive of not having them and that we take for granted.
Do I create a beautiful portrait of each child showing the joy I saw on their faces – and in the process perhaps lessen their chances for sponsorship because I’ve created the impression that they are not so bad off? Or do I intentionally create an image of desperate poverty and attempt to manipulate the viewer into a sponsorship because they feel so guilty for the privileged lives they live in comparison? I felt a huge responsibility to both the children and the potential sponsors, but it was a question I had to answer.
In my photography business back home in California I always felt it was my job to call forth and capture my subject’s best self. I knew that a photograph captures a moment in time and just as important creates an impression and a permanent memory for both the subject and the viewer. Over the years I have learned that no matter your background or your circumstances, rich or poor, everyone wants to look good in a picture – in other words be their best self, even if just for a moment. But a moment that can be recalled again and again and remind them too of their best selves.
Since the start of my travels in August I have been telling anyone who would listen of my desire to find and document positive stories of empowerment, of my desire to realize a dream – the dream of making a meaningful contribution to those less fortunate in my world community through my photography and writing. Yes, a lofty goal indeed, but I did not want to limit myself from the outset. I was sure circumstances and life would do that without my help. I really made use of the wonders of Facebook, Twitter and social networking to spread the word and connect with as many people as possible. I am thrilled to report that it has had an amazing snowball effect.
That is how I met Sopheap, a young Cambodian man from a poor family on the outskirts of Siem Reap. His father was a fisherman and so that is what he learned to do as a child. Then he met a man who agreed to teach him English for three years. He used his knowledge to do something different than his father: he got a small loan and started a tuk-tuk business driving tourists to Angkor Wat and around Siem Reap. In his spare time he began helping the other poor children from his village.
Although there are many orphanages in and around Siem Reap he wanted to focus on poor families. These families and their children are most at risk for becoming victims of human trafficking and labor exploitation. Sometimes the parents may be so destitute they do not want their children to starve and believe the stories they are told: their young daughter or son will be given a job as a house servant – with food and board. They believe they are giving their child essentially the chance at survival and a better life. They might even be offered a few hundred dollars and so it happens. Sopheap wanted to give hope to these families by helping the children stay in school and provide them with the opportunity to learn English – like he had.
Enter Tara, a young Australian woman who came to Siem Reap on a holiday and met Sopheap. Although they are from very different backgrounds and an unlikely pair on the outside, they shared the same passion to help and quickly fell in love. Now, via KidsCare Australia,Tara helps to find sponsors and Sopheap takes care of all the logistical and physical details in Siem Reap. He continues to live in his poor family home and stays in close contact with the children. Together they have begun to change the lives of 20 children and given them and their parents hope for a better future.
And now there were sixteen more children whose lives they wanted to change. It was 1:30pm in the afternoon and the tropical sun was harsh and unrelenting. I was scanning around to find a shady spot to work. I had made my decision. All my instincts and intuition were telling me to create beautiful portraits of these children, to give them a permanent memory of their better selves.
I wanted each child to recognize their own beauty and I wanted to bolster their self-confidence with an image they liked of themselves. Thankfully the wonders of digital make that possible. I allowed each child to determine if I had taken a photo they approved of before moving on to the next one.
So just in case you look at these portraits and say: “Oh they don’t look unhappy. How bad off can they really be?” please take a moment to imagine how they will look in 10 or 15 years – without the benefit of an education or after having been sold into the sex trade or into a sweat shop. Along with these portraits you can also take a look at how they live. My supplementary album is shot in a photo documentary style that is not so romantic – just in case you have any doubts.
So you want to sponsor one of Sopheap’s 16 kids? Here are links to my photo album of the kids and a link to Tara’s KidsCare Australia where you can complete the sponsorship as well as more details:
Each child requires a starter kit without which the child cannot start taking English lessons. The school is 5 km (3.1 miles) away and the only way for these kids to reach it is on foot or via bicycle. Your $65 buys your child this:
a bicycle (or if a sibling already has one, extra clothes and/or food as needed)
school uniform,
shoes,
a backpack,
books,
pens, pencils, ruler, sharpener and a pencil case
The regular monthly sponsorship is $15 and covers the following:
$8 for English classes (5 days a week, 2 (?) hours each day)
$2 goes to a health fund for all health care needs
$5 goes into an expense account so that you will not be asked for supplementary donations every year. It will buy things as needed, such as new books and pencils, a new school uniform and shoes when outgrown, bike repair and maintenance and if the child needs it extra food.
As you can see 100% of your donation goes directly towards the child. All travel expenses and administrative costs, such as Paypal fees are absorbed by Tara personally. Sopheap pays for any expenses he incurs, such as gasoline, from the money he earns as a tuk-tuk driver.
Please remember that education is a long-term endeavor. Consider carefully your ability to maintain a long-term sponsorship before deciding. Nothing will be more disappointing to the child than receiving a sponsor who bails out six months or even two years later, before they have completed their education. One-time donations are always possible and will be used to cover extras such as clothes, food, fixing or replacing a bicycle etc. At present there is also a vocational training project for young adults that you can support and more will be added as funds become available. If you want to stay in touch with your sponsored child you can do so via Facebook and friend both Sopheap and Tara.
So are you ready to change the world for the better? You can! One child at a time.























